Don’t Give A Fuck.
Do me a favor, and let it go…
No, I don’t mean that you’re bugging me, I mean you’re bugging yourself.
For real, do me a favor and just let it go. Stop being so hard on yourself, it’s no good in any way.
Too often we let others people opinions reflect on us and make us feel bad about something that we think, do or even just feel. And that’s so wrong on so many levels.
I’m 28 years old. I have a bachelor’s degree in communication. And all my friends and family know I want to achieve a lot in life. For the last 4 months, I work as a waitress in a restaurant here in LA.
I can’t even begin to explain how many people had lifted eyebrows on me. Trying to figure out why I’m not doing something more than that. How come I’m not in the middle of my career, having a “real” job, a grownup job. Well, I admit that it got me for a little while. But then I realized, what the F do you care? It is my life and I feel amazing in my own path.
You see, people can not know what’s going on in you mind, in your heart and usually (always;) tend to judge your situation by what they know. Well, that’s totally not there problem or job to do.
I know in my heart that I’m on my high flying disc to all my dreams, and they’re big, believe me 🙌. So I honestly stopped explaining myself to others who doesn’t trying to actually understand what is really going on with me or where I am in relationship to where I’m aiming.
The funny thing is…
The funny thing is that when I actually chose to let go and listen to what my heart leads me to do. Simply decided that I don’t give a fuck what others saying. From that point on I had so much more fun at work. And simultaneously I’ve started to think about other job options so I can work on my goals. When that happened I also found a hidden voice inside of me that tells me exactly what I actually want. The voices in my head got way clearer.
With that being said, I gotta say, I’m not trying to make you hate or be angry at those people who say this or that about you. Well, first of all, let’s face that usually, those people will be your parents, family, close friends, people you do care about a lot.
Just understand that it’s their opinions, usually, it’s exactly what they’re thinking about themselves or that’s the way they think the norms should be, and they just don’t know how to separate and give advice objectively or individually.
The bottom line, be easy on yourself. Love yourself and trust your heart and what’s feels good to you. Each one of us has their own path. Their own way of getting things done. Their own frequency of moving in this journey. And that’s freakin amazing! It’s so beautiful that we all have our own ways of being who we are. Think about how boring it would be if all of us where exactly the same, B o r i n g!
If so, don’t give a fuck what people say, care about what you feel. Love yourself and give yourself a slack 😉
